Go against the grain

Go against the grain

Go against the grain I’m a firm believer that we are all in choice. We have the power to think, feel or do what we want in any given moment. However, the trouble is that all choices have consequences. For example, I chose not to look at emails at all on my...
Even monks get distracted

Even monks get distracted

Even monks get distracted A while back, I watched the film Walk with me about life at Plum Village, the monastery set up in France by the late Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh. An integral part of the Plum Village routine is the sounding of a bell every 15 minutes, which...
Turn fear into excitement

Turn fear into excitement

Turn fear into excitement Will* came to our coaching session seeking tips for a forthcoming speaking gig. He hated public speaking and was dreading sitting on a panel at a big conference. We started by briefly exploring what past experiences may have led to him...
Are you reflecting, or ruminating?

Are you reflecting, or ruminating?

Are you reflecting, or ruminating? I’m currently competing in the tennis club tournament. I’m pleased to say that things are going quite well, but I came out of my last match disappointed in how I’d played, even though my partner and I won. My go-to was to beat myself...
Things getting heated? Be a calming influence

Things getting heated? Be a calming influence

Things getting heated? Be a calming influence Emotions are contagious. A couple of months ago, I shared a blog about our emotional state and how, if we’re feeling stressed, the people around us will too. This is particularly important when you’re in a...