When people don’t do what you want them to

When people don’t do what you want them to

When people don’t do what you want them to A few years back, my husband and I decided to divvy up particular jobs in the house. One of the jobs Bryan took on was emptying the dishwasher every day, which he did without fail. However, I found myself getting...
The antidote to being reactive

The antidote to being reactive

The antidote to being reactive As a keen amateur tennis player, I play a lot of doubles. When you and one or both of your opponents are at the net, things can get fast and furious as you volley the ball back and forth. It can be great fun but it can feel like...
How to handle frustration

How to handle frustration

How to handle frustration Frustration is a topic that often comes up with my coaching clients. Either they struggle to contain feelings of frustration and end up having an emotional outburst, or they hold them in. Neither works well for them or for others. For...
Procrastination : the ultimate in perfectionism?

Procrastination : the ultimate in perfectionism?

Procrastination : the ultimate in perfectionism? I’ve been thinking about writing this blog on procrastination for a while, which feels quite appropriate given that procrastination is about putting something off. I love the fact that the etymology of the word...